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E! News: Ok, major question here. Chocolate or vanilla cake?
Jamie Lee: Vanilla. Chocolate cake does like a crumb thing in your teeth. It’s almost like a poppy seed bagel, there’s always like flecks of it everywhere after you eat it. It is a bit messy. And also, hot take, I don’t think chocolate cake, like the actual cake part, tastes like chocolate. It’s definitely delicious but, vanilla cake tastes like vanilla.
E! News: Final question, is it weird that I have cried a handful of times trying to plan this wedding?
Jamie Lee: Nope, honestly that’s on the low end of crying times. For me, it was like daily…I would love wedding culture to adjust so that we don’t feel this immense pressure to do things a certain way. And I think, as women, we already put a lot of pressure on ourselves just to look great and present put together for everyone, and I think weddings really compound that for us.
For how Jamie helps brides and grooms fight these expectations, catch The Wedding Coach when it premieres Wednesday, April 7 on Netflix.