A social influencer, Minister Yahdan Yada, has advised women to never loan money to men or let them drive their cars.
Yada who gave the advice in a Facebook post on Sunday, May 25, said a man who’s comfortable asking a woman for help while bringing nothing to the table, isn’t a real man.
According to him, a man can easily misconstrue a woman’s generosity and compassion, making him feel entitled.
“Never loan a man money. Never let him drive your car. Never let him move into your home. Because the second you do, he’ll start treating your generosity like it’s owed to him,” he wrote.
He’ll confuse your compassion for convenience. He’ll start calling your strength his safety net—while offering you nothing but excuses.
You are sacred. You are not a rehab center for men who refuse to grow up. You are not a sponsor. You are not his ride, his shelter, or his backup plan.
A man who’s comfortable asking you for help while bringing nothing to the table, isn’t a man. He’s a liability.
Real men build. Real men protect. Real men provide.
They don’t drain you. They don’t live off you. They don’t watch you struggle while they sit back and “figure it out.”
Make it harder. Make him rise to your standard, not drain you until you lower it.
Protect your peace. Know your worth. Stop playing wife to men who haven’t earned your presence.
If your fathers didn’t teach you, i am! NDBA No Dusty Bums Allowed!
